I just had to share this!!!
What defines a good woman. Well in my personal opinion a good woman defines herself within her own actions. First off let me lay the foundation of why a woman has the ability to even be considered "good". Well for starters she is the absolute rock of a relationship and more importantly the mother of humanity. The problem that woman run into which keeps them from obtaining the "good" status is the fact that they don't believe in their heart of hearts of how valuable they are, and it is because of this that we run into problems within relationships and even friendships. It is to often that we loose sight of our purpose here on this earth, it is not to make money, not to have a big house, nor have expensive things, our sole purpose is to reproduce and keep our civilization moving forward, and who is in complete control of this epic facet of life, you guessed it women. You control the absolute essence of life and mankind.
As you understand the foundation of the eternal essence of a woman now you must apply that knowledge to everyday life. You see if a woman is strong enough to conceive, carry, and create life for 9 months, how can she not be able to handle and help support the struggles of everyday life. Understand that no relationship is perfect. However, it is how two people can come together as one to overcome those struggles. A woman is made to nurture and support whether the sun is shining or if the storm is terrorizing she is and will always be the nurturing support that a man needs to help him navigate through the storm to get back to the shining sun. You see a man is the head of the relationship that is how we are made to be the strength, provider, and protector of the family. These were giving to us through divine right, what was also giving to us through divine right to help us cope was the sensitive, beautiful, and nurturing elegance known as a woman. Her role in the relationship would be the neck, because she is the support that guides the head and helps the head see to be able to make the correct decisions for the family. A woman who comprehends this is a GOOD woman.
There is an interesting dichotomy which helps to explain why some people are "good" and some people have some work to do. This ideology is known as "Fruit vs. Potential". Potential is a synonym for hopeful, it goes right along with words like wish, maybe, etc. Unfortunately people fall into the catehory of being potential, but as we know most people never truly reach there full " potential". So as we choose our significant others to be our partners for life if you choose someone with potential 9 times out of 10 that person isn't going to be what you "hoped" or "wished" they would be. It is at this point you have to make a decision about how much time do you want to put in to try and wait for your partner to reach there full potential, remember although love goes along way most people never reach there full potential.
Fruit on the other hand is what you want to wake up to everyday. I say this because no matter which "fruit" you choose, they all have one thing in common, once you peel, or bite through the outer layer (also known as the skin) you will always reach the sweet core of that fruit. You see us as human beings are created in the womb pure. It is once we come out of that womb that we are taught or programmed to be who we are for the rest of our lives. These are known as your CORE values. You can't change nor deny them because they make up who you are as a person. It is also known as your character. As we choose our partners unfortunately people get caught up more in the potential of someone rather then the fruit of who that person is. Simply stated the fruit will outlast the potential everytime so please choose wisely!
As you understand the foundation of the eternal essence of a woman now you must apply that knowledge to everyday life. You see if a woman is strong enough to conceive, carry, and create life for 9 months, how can she not be able to handle and help support the struggles of everyday life. Understand that no relationship is perfect. However, it is how two people can come together as one to overcome those struggles. A woman is made to nurture and support whether the sun is shining or if the storm is terrorizing she is and will always be the nurturing support that a man needs to help him navigate through the storm to get back to the shining sun. You see a man is the head of the relationship that is how we are made to be the strength, provider, and protector of the family. These were giving to us through divine right, what was also giving to us through divine right to help us cope was the sensitive, beautiful, and nurturing elegance known as a woman. Her role in the relationship would be the neck, because she is the support that guides the head and helps the head see to be able to make the correct decisions for the family. A woman who comprehends this is a GOOD woman.
There is an interesting dichotomy which helps to explain why some people are "good" and some people have some work to do. This ideology is known as "Fruit vs. Potential". Potential is a synonym for hopeful, it goes right along with words like wish, maybe, etc. Unfortunately people fall into the catehory of being potential, but as we know most people never truly reach there full " potential". So as we choose our significant others to be our partners for life if you choose someone with potential 9 times out of 10 that person isn't going to be what you "hoped" or "wished" they would be. It is at this point you have to make a decision about how much time do you want to put in to try and wait for your partner to reach there full potential, remember although love goes along way most people never reach there full potential.
Fruit on the other hand is what you want to wake up to everyday. I say this because no matter which "fruit" you choose, they all have one thing in common, once you peel, or bite through the outer layer (also known as the skin) you will always reach the sweet core of that fruit. You see us as human beings are created in the womb pure. It is once we come out of that womb that we are taught or programmed to be who we are for the rest of our lives. These are known as your CORE values. You can't change nor deny them because they make up who you are as a person. It is also known as your character. As we choose our partners unfortunately people get caught up more in the potential of someone rather then the fruit of who that person is. Simply stated the fruit will outlast the potential everytime so please choose wisely!
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The fruit vs. potential theory is soooo true. Sometimes we do get caught up in what can be, instead of what it is. You can train someone but so much. We are all born with certain characteristics that cannot be changed regardless of who we are with. I definitely only want to deal with fruit.
Posted by: Sha | January 23, 2007 12:25 PM